Sunday, March 14, 2021

COVID-19: Is this over yet?

The title of this post was suggested by Mason.  It's been a while since we've posted anything on this Blog.  In the good old days (notably in Virginia, but even in Arkansas), we would have fun updates to share on an almost weekly basis.  Of course, COVID has turned fun upside down.  In fact, it's made fun a little bit harder to come by.  Compared to many, though, we have nothing to complain about.  So many people have lost their jobs, money, homes...and many have died.  In fact, the death total is now around 534,000.  What a tragedy to think of so many who have lost loved ones from COVID, or who will suffer from various symptoms for the rest of their lives.  

We have been asked to do relatively little: wear masks, social distance (at least 6 feet away), forego various entertainment options, order takeout instead of dining in...we feel grateful that the impacts on our immediate family's lives have been minimal.  In fact, only a few of our extended family have contracted COVID.  The biggest downer for us personally has been the geographic restrictions we've had to live with, especially given my work in the military.  For almost the entire past year, we've been restricted to staying within 75 miles of where we live unless we get an exception signed off.  We've only left that 75 mile radius twice:  Once when we moved from Arkansas to Texas, which we were able to do due to Joanna being pregnant with Emma.  The other time was when we visited the McConkies in Colorado for Thanksgiving.  When we have been able to leave the 75-mile bubble, we've been required to take numerous precautions to make sure we don't get sick.  While kids have been relatively unimpacted by the virus health-wise, it has certainly taken its toll on them as well.  School has been cancelled for months at a time, sports have been abbreviated, and kids have had to wear masks like everyone else.  

MASON'S THOUGHTS

We feel jealous that other kids get to not have school while the virus is spreading up to this day.

BACK TO DAD'S THOUGHTS

Kids need to go to school, Mason.  Your generation has become corrupted.

Okay...enough of that.

At the end of the day, the biggest impact on us has been the lack of travel opportunities during COVID.  We miss being able to hit the road at the drop of the hat and go somewhere fun.  Back in the good old days of law school, if there was a 4 hour gap in my schedule we would just look something up, pack up, and go.  Hopefully we'll have those kinds of opportunities again.

Things are looking hopeful.  The vaccine is being distributed very quickly.  Apparently the vaccine will be available to almost all adults by early May, and the latest updates show over 2 million Americans getting vaccinated daily.  Hurray!  I just got the first round of my vaccine a couple weeks ago, and I will get my second dose in a couple weeks.  We're hoping Joanna can get hers soon.  Then hopefully things will start opening up again.  Church meetings have been canceled for most of the past year.  Having church from home has actually been a really sweet experience overall, but I'm looking forward to having the companionship of our fellow Church members once again.  Hopefully later this year I'll be able to fly commercial again and the travel restrictions will be mostly lifted.  One of the biggest bummers has been just not being able to plan travel.  This past week I put my paternity leave in the calendar so that feels good!  We plan on visiting family in Arizona and Utah for three weeks.  We decided to take care of travel things in our control and applied for passports a few weeks ago.  Now we all have them except for Lizzie, and hers will be arriving soon.  Then we can really hit the road!  My Mom, Dad, and Jordan will be visiting in early April, so we're excited for that.  We've missed family time, and while it's been nice to have Facetime, Zoom, and Portal, we're looking forward to some more face-to-face interactions in the next few months.

So that's where we are now.  So many days have blurred into each other given the circumstances that COVID has brought upon us. 

Oh yeah, another crazy thing happened a few weeks ago.  We had one of the biggest snowstorms in the history of Texas.  The weather has been relatively mild since we've moved to Abilene.  In fact, it's been one of the most pleasant winters I can remember, but that storm was something else.  The temperatures stayed below freezing for an entire week, and most of the city was without power for several days, and even the water supply was cutoff for a couple days.  We were glad to live on base as our power stayed on, but we did limit our usage.  Sadly, a few people died in Abilene.  Some of my coworkers had to move into hotels for a few days.  Somehow most of us still kept going to work.  In fact, I prosecuted a court-martial that same week.  

Since that week, things have been beautiful again.  Lots of sunshine!  Yesterday, Austin Shirey, my friend across the street, helped us build a cornhole set.  I have to say, it looks great!  

Now that COVID is almost out of the way, we're looking forward to many fun gatherings ahead.  Heaven knows how much we need contact with others.  I feel for so many whose loneliness has been compounded these last several months.  We really need one another.

Thursday, June 11, 2020

2020 so far

2020 will go down in infamy as the year all of us hope to forget! :) However, in the field of dirt and mud, we have discovered some diamonds as well. We actually went diamond hunting here in Arkansas a few months ago, and didn't find any diamonds, so I have a new appreciation for diamonds. They are rare, but they are beautiful and valuable. Our Christmas was lovely, our trip to Utah was amazing, and this spring in Arkansas has been breathtakingly beautiful! In Utah we were hosted so kindly by Nate's family and also spent a night or two with Mike and Jenet and two nights with my parents in Southern Utah on their mission. We went skiing with Nate's sister Jenica and my sister Jenet's family. I got to play my violin with the Orchestra at Temple Square. 

A highlight was also visiting my parents on their mission in Bluff Fort Utah. I will never forget hiking where the Pioneers brought the wagons, horses, and children on that treacherous hill and at the top reading 'We Thank Thee oh God' etched into the side of the mountain. No one but angels to cheer them on in that desert, and even the mission was ultimately unsuccessful in some ways but their examples of faith in Heavenly Father and their trust in His servants is a gift they have given to their children that is in our very blood now. Such a beautiful reminder to give Him thanks in every thing - for His strength, His guidance, His love. We also went to a fun BYU v Stanford Volleyball game with Nate's Dad and brother Jordan, and I got to see other family members which I loved.

This Spring we celebrated Lizzie's 2nd and Stanley's 6th birthdays on the 10th and 14th, respectively. We also celebrated Mother's Day on the 10th which was wonderful. Nate and I turned 34 which is hard to believe sometimes :). We found out we were pregnant this spring, which was a joy, right before I went to San Diego to spend some time with my sisters and parents. I suffered from morning sickness and exhaustion, so when I hit 14 weeks and finally started feeling myself again, we celebrated by visiting some beautiful places here in Arkansas - Ouachita Lake and hiking in Petit Jean. Caronavirus hit the world with a furry and many people have suffered in many ways as a result - death and sickness, isolation, a weakened economy, lost jobs and a lot of stress and worry. Mason got his wish and got to be home schooled also as a result.

We got a small pool to survive the summer heat here, and are planning to move to Texas so that Nate can fulfill his next assignment in the military in Abilene at Dyess Air Force Base. Our baby is planning to make his/her appearance sometime in the end of October or early November. We find out the gender next Wednesday. We are so sad not to be able to fly to Utah next week to visit our family - but we are trying to learn patience, and have hope for the future. Lizzie has a small surgery to align her eyes a little better this month on the 30th, so please keep her in your prayers. Her eyes are otherwise looking wonderfully - 20/20 in her right and 20/40 in her left which is miraculous. They have said that the daily 3 hour gueling patching has been paying off hugely, so we are so grateful. This surgery is something most children have to have who are born with a cataract. It will help her depth perception as well as her peripheral vision. We are grateful for modern medical technology, inspired and hard working doctors and scientists which makes it possible to experience life normally after being born with near blindness in one eye.

We love you and we are so thankful for you in our lives!!



























Wednesday, October 23, 2019

Fall in Arkansas

We have been really enjoying the beautiful weather outside these last few weeks. When there is nice weather you stay outside as long as possible and soak it up. We have enjoyed going to the Arkansas History Museum, hiking Petit Jean, going to the first Trader Joe in Arkansas' Grand Opening, going to the zoo, visiting the historic Central High School where the Little Rock Nine first integrated, the Old Court House, Mason and Stanley's first basketball camp, Maumelle Park, and other fun things. Forgive all of the pictures in advance :). They are also a little out of order.

Arkansas History Museum children's section


Old Court House of Arkansas


Children's section of the old Court House

She was all ready to do a tap dance for us :)

Famous donuts here in Arkansas


The famous Central High School National Park Museum

basketball camp for Mason and Stanley

holding a baby kangaroo at a recent birthday party we got to go to

yes yes, those are lemurs in Arkansas. I know, confusing, right?

kangaroos, and lemurs, and parrots, oh my!


Lizzie continues her obsession with dogs

and swings



feeding the camel



and turkeys. it's a full time job ;)

Mason's 'Limeade' stand dedicated to reducing poverty. He was able to donate a beehive due to the proceeds here. So proud of that boy!

Here you see Lizzie sneaking a quick drink while the others are busy advertising ;)

pumpkin patch season with friends



playing catch in the park

"cheese!"

trying to find a way to get into the dog park

Hiking Petit Jean with our good friends here




The cutest supporters at my half marathon

The best seeing these faces at the finish line. I admit I couldn't hold back the tears. I love them so much. For some reason, races always make me so emotional!

the best little helper watering our herb plants 
two airmen and a baby



Mason gained some shooting skills this last basketball camp

Arkansas History Museum

loved having Mason and Stanley put on a puppet show for us

corn at the pumpkin patch

catch again :)



picnic at Maumelle Park

Lucky to ever keep clothes on this girl